Girls so confused please help?

Okay, drugs, rape, moving here and there, her son is not in her custody. Is this really the girl that you want to be with? I don't doubt that she had a pretty messed up childhood from the sound of things, but at some point, she has to take responsibility for her life and her son's life. She sounds more than depressed, possibly using drugs, probable mental illness. She called you because you were close and she knew you would come. I don't think she knows what love is. She has no identity, therefore no intimacy, meaning no love in relationships. I'm 32.